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Baby come back?

July 20th, 2006
Dear Rico:

My girlfriend recently broke up with me. She told me she just didn’t see spending the rest of her life with me. I asked her if she loved me. She said she didn’t know. I told her I loved her and that I wanted to marry her. She didn’t say anything.

Everyone I talk to tells me how shocked they were when they heard we broke up how cute we were together. Her mom said I was a wonderful boyfriend. Her friends say I they were always jealous of us together.

I sent her a card for Valentine’s Day and she only sent a one-word IM that said “thanks.” For Easter I sent her a chocolate bunny, but never heard anything. On Memorial Day, I left her a left her a message inviting her to attend out family barbque. She didn’t show up.

How do I get her back?

Hurting in Houston

Dear Hurting:

Poor, poor diluted Hurting. How much clearer does your ex need to be? Would renting a billboard that says “It’s over, move on with your life” make things any clearer for you? She broke things off at least five months ago. If she ever was going to come running back to your open arms, she would have done so already

By the way, it doesn’t matter how much her mom or anyone else liked you. It only mattered how much she liked you, and she already broke things off.

Stop holding the candle for her. You’re only burning yourself.

Love and licks,
Rico

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Is man stuck in a child-free relationship?

July 20th, 2006
Dear Rico:   

My wife and I have been married for 15 years. When we were first dating, we talked about having kids. She didn’t want any and I did. We still decided to get married, I guess I thought one day her maternal instincts would kick-in, and she would change her mind. But she hasn’t. Now the clock is ticking, and I really miss not having the any little ones. What should I do?

Childless in Rancho Cucamonga

Dear Childless:

Hmmm, you thought your wife would “change her mind” about kids, or you thought you’d badger her into changing her mind? Maybe you thought you could persuade her? Or that one happy day she would “forget” to take her pills?

I mean, when you were talking about planning your lives together, what possibly could have made you think she would change her mind about one of the most fundamental aspects of a marriage?

Your wife is to be congratulated for knowing what she wanted out of life and sticking by it. You on the other hand…

Well, I guess I’m 15 years to late to prevent the problem.

So what do you do now? You have to ask yourself if you love your wife more than you miss having children. If the answer to that question is yes, then live the rest of your days with your betrothed and drop the kid issue.

If think you’ll miss not having kids more, you should part ways with your wife so you can pursue other options. (Making sure you are honest with any women you meet.) But whatever you decide, you should make your decision quickly. As you say, the clock is ticking.

Love and licks,
Rico

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Should boyfriend have an open-door policy?

July 20th, 2006
Dear Rico:

I really like my new boyfriend. He is attentive and a good listener. More importantly, he treats me with respect, like an equal. There’s just one problem. Whenever we go out in public he will never open the door for me, or close my car door. I know it is just a small gesture, but my ex-boyfriend did it for me, it really made me feel like a princess. How do I give my new boyfriend the hint?

Open my door in Sarasota

Dear Open:

Or should I say “Your highnesses? So let me get this straight, you like your boyfriend because he treats you “like an equal,” but then you want him to scurry around for you to open and shut doors so you can feel like a princess? In your letter you failed to mention if your main squeeze is heir inherent to the throne, but I’m assuming he’s no prince. So what you are basically saying is that you want to be treated like an equal, so long as you are “more equal.” Open your own door, shut your trap and get over it.

Luv and licks,
Rico

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Build effective e-mail promotions

July 20th, 2006

When done effectively, e-mail marketing can be a great way to build relationships with your customers, to update them on exciting offers and services available and to increase your sales base. 

The key of course, is to have an effective e-mail marketing campaign that avoids the many pitfalls of the medium. Too often, e-mail programs will languish with high spam rankings, low open rates and even lower conversion rates.

To avoid these common pitfalls, e-marketers suggest the following:

By Following these simple approaches you will have more effective e-mail campaigns.

By David Plowman

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Get big results from small changes

July 20th, 2006

“Simple things mean a lot.” Chances are you probably learned this truism from your mother as you were growing up. It is good, sound advice and something you’ve hopefully applied over the years. But did you know that mom’s advice can also help you increase sales from your website? 

When it comes to designing a website, many on-line marketers tend to think of the big changes. They design optimized landing pages, re-design several pages of the site and embark on a multi-phase, interdepartmental project to redesign their site.

While such projects can be very useful and can greatly enhance a website’s conversion rate, sometimes such massive effort isn’t always needed. In fact, a recent study by Marketing Experiments Journal, an on-line newsletter dedicated to discovering “what really works” for marketing on the internet,  found that make small changes can also lead to big increases in a site’s bottom-line performance.

In one experiment conducted with a major on-line publisher, the Journal took an already optimized page and increased conversion rates by 12% simply by changing two words of the page’s copy. In another experiment for the same publisher, the Journal tested a two-column format and a one column format The tests revealed that the one-column format preformed 88% better than its multi-column counterpart.  The increase is dramatic, considering the Journal made no changes to the site’s text and made no other formatting changes.

The secret to getting these results, the Journal says, is to continue making small changes and following then up with several tests to monitor the results.

The Journal advised that web producers consider making any of the following minor changes can potentially lead to major results:

  • Changing the headline text, size or color.
  • Using a different background color.
  • Including testimonials.
  • Adjusting the amount of images on a site.
  • Revising the “call to action” text.

Turns out your Mom was right, even when it comes to on-line marketing efforts.

By David Plowman

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Banner Ads: Click through rate is only part of the story

July 19th, 2006

The ever-present banner ad just isn’t getting its proper due. There have been several studies showing that as web consumers are becoming more sophisticated, fewer people are clicking on the ad and linking to the advertiser’s site.

While declining click through rates are undeniably tapering off from their early peak, Luddites should not be so quick to conclude that banner ads are useless. That’s because like traditional advertising, the purpose of the much-maligned banner ad is not just to generate direct sales through click-throughs, but also to build brand identification and brand loyalty.

Widely accepted in traditional advertising, branding creates awareness of a product or service, but does not necessarily result in a direct or immediate sale. For example, auto manufactures traditionally blanket the airwaves informing consumers of their latest models. Most manufactures don’t expect consumers to jump out of their chair and rush to the nearest dealership to purchase the advertised car.  But they do want to make consumers aware of the particular makes and models the manufacturer has available. The manufacture then hopes that if any consumers are or soon will be in the market for a new car, they will remember the commercials and start looking for the make and model of the advertised car.

Banner ads work in the same way. Suppose an on-line travel website advertises heavily on the web. It is very unlikely that consumers will click through the advertisement to book a vacation every time they see the ad.  However, when it comes time to plan an a vacation, chances are consumers will check the site they have seen advertised on the web.

Proponents of on-line advertising argue that measuring the success of banner ads by their click though rate is only getting part of the story. Instead, they say a more holistic approach would be to measure a change in sales during a particular on-line advertising campaign and immediately after. If sales increase significantly, it is likely the result of the ad campaign, whether or not the consumer clicked through your ad or types the website in themselves.

By David Plowman

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Types of on-line ads

July 18th, 2006

When it comes to on-line advertising there are several types of on-line ads to consider. Here’s a primer on some of the most common:

  • Banner ads. The old stalwart of web site, these are horizontal ads at the top or bottom of the website. While these ads are ubiquitous, traditionally they do not have a very high click through rate.
  • Skyscraper ads. These ads are similar to banner ads, but instead of running across the screen horizontal, they are vertical.
  • Square ads. These rectangular ads are generally placed in the middle of the screen and break up the text in a web site.
  • Pop-Ups. No doubt you are familiar with these ads that pop-up in a new window over the site you were reading. While these ads are generally unwelcome by many web surfers, and there are several pop-up blockers that prevent most of them from appearing, surprising these ads have a relatively high click-through rate.
  • Pop-under. As the name implies, these ads are similar to pop-ups, but they open underneath the current web page. You won’t know they are there until after you click off the window you’re viewing.
  • Interstitial. These ads will appear after you clicked an internal site and before the new site loads.
  • Overlays. These types of ads will overtake the background of the site you are looking at, replace overwrite it or hover around the sreen.

By David Plowman

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The web shouldn’t be the only place you market your web site

July 18th, 2006

A website can offer many benefits for your company. It can help educate consumers about your product, help generate public relations and most importantly, generate sales. But that only happens if people actually visit your site.

While there are several ways you can develop an on-line presence through many other on-line arenas such as search engines, banner ads and pop-ups, many people forget to add their website address to their more traditional off-line forms of advertising.

When advertising in the print media, make sure to include your website. These days, advertisements look naked without  it. And with good reason, consumers now more likely to check your website than to call, mail or visit your business in person. Because of its importance, make sure your address is printed in a large font, at least as large as your address or phone number.

Your web address should be on every document you have printed, including letterhead, business cards, coupons, flyers, and shopping bags. The more ways you get your website out there, the greater chance people will log on to your site.

If you are planning to advertise on other forms of traditional media, remember to include your website. When advertising on the radio, make sure to repeat your address at least three times. Listeners are probably more likely to remember your web address than your phone number. When advertising on the TV, keep in mind that not all viewers have large screen TV’s, make sure that your site is readable even on a smaller screen.

There are several good reasons to increase your on-line presence on-line however, just don’t forget about adding to your cyberspace presence in the 3-D too.

David Plowman 

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EXTREME DESTINATIONS: Sleeping With the Fishes

July 13th, 2006

“Sleeping with the fishes” is something you might hear in old gangsters movie from Hollywood’s hay-day. But, today the phrase is no longer a euphemism; it can be a reality at the ultimate extreme vacation destination.If you are looking for something a little different on your next vacation…here are some underwater luxury resorts offering the finest accouterments and the best views on the planet.Jules’ Undersea Lodge is an aquatic hotel located off the coast of Key Largo, Florida. In the 1970’s, this converted lodge was the La Chalupa research laboratory, which primarily functioned to explore the continental shelf off the coast of Puerto Rico.

This undersea lodge is accessible only by scuba diving 21 feet beneath the shimmering blue Atlantic Ocean. Once emerging from beneath the structure into a seven foot “moon pool,” you will find yourself in the lodges’ wet room where you remove your gear, take a hot shower, and embark into the rest of the underwater habitat.

The lodge accommodates up to six people comfortably. In fact, comfort is key at this resort as it provides the same luxuries land-dwellers have become accustomed to. Amenities include a DVD player, a refrigerator, a microwave, a fully-stocked galley, air conditioning and even a local pizza delivery service. Some packages, which range upwards of $1,195, include a “mer-chef” who scuba dives down to the habitat and prepare a world-class meal.

If you don’t know how to scuba dive, the facility offers a three-hour class that teaches the basics of navigating the undersea world.

Since the habitat is built five feet from the ocean floor and is surrounded by the Mangrove Lagoon, you will have a spectacular view of the indigenous underwater life including oysters, sponges, snappers, and barracudas just to name a few of the breathtaking aquatic residents.

The Poseidon Undersea Resort is currently under construction near the Eleuthera Island in the Bahamas and  is scheduled to accept its first undersea guests during the later part of 2007.

Unlike Jules’ Undersea Lodge, you won’t need to get wet to enter this luxurious resort as all guests will enter via an underwater tunnel.

Upon completion, the Poseidon will offer panoramic views from over 60 percent of the rooms using acrylic windows that offer a glimpse into Bahamas’ underwater world.

During your stay beneath the sea, the Poseidon will offer every luxury including lounges, swimming pools, a library, submarine tours, and wet locks for the avid scuba divers.

Starting at $1,500 per night for a 550 sq ft suite, this experience of a lifetime is worth the price. But, if you want to go all out and really go extreme, book the Poseidon’s Lair, which is a private undersea bungalow nestled 1,000 feet below the ocean’s surface and is only accessible via private submersible. This extreme package priced at $20,000 a night, comes with your own private submarine captain and butler.

Poseidon will be billed at the world’s first sea floor resort complex and will be unique, exclusive, and rest-assured, will earn all of its five stars.

The Hydropolis Hotel, which is currently under construction of the coast of Dubai in the United Arab Emirates is also an undersea resort and is accessible via an underwater transparent train tunnel. The train will take you 66 feet below the Persian Gulf to the dome-shaped resort that promises to offer every luxurious amenity. The Hydropolis will boast 220 luxury suites upon its completion and rates will be as much at $5,500 per night.

One of the many unique features of the Hyrdropolis will be the hotel’s two translucent domes, which will house a concert auditorium and a ballroom that pierces the ocean’s surface and will feature a retractable roof.

So when planning your next vacation, think outside of the box, or in this case, under the sea for the extreme vacation of a lifetime!

By Chuck Charles

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Shine a light on hidden hotel fees

July 13th, 2006

For the hotel industry, it is a $1.4 billion a year boom, for hotel guests, it is a frustrating litany of charges ranging anywhere from $2.50 to $30-per item charges that can easily drive the room rate up more than $100 a day.

Hidden charges have taken residence at many hotels around the country, and aren’t expected to check-out any time soon. Some examples of these charges include mini-bar restocking fees (in addition to the less-than-economical price for the drinks themselves), room service delivery fees (over and above the cost of the delivered items and the tip), parking fees (which depending on where you stay, are based on both the duration of your stay and the number of times you enter and exit the facility).

Want a complementary cup of coffee? Not so fast. Some hotels offer free use of the coffee-maker and cup but charge you for the package of grounds. More often, the “free coffee” is billed to you in the form of a “resort fee” which also covers the cost of the “free” gym, pool and/or golf course, whether or not you use these amenities or not.

 Here’s some free advice to help you avoid the charges: when you book the room, ask the attendant if there are any charges in addition to the room rates. In some states, hotels are required to inform guests of any surcharges in advance of their stay.

You may also want to try some other tactics to avoid the hidden hotel charges:

  • Join the hotel’s frequent visitor program. In addition to earning points for free or upgraded rooms, some hotels waive their “resort fees” for their club members. Even if it doesn’t automatically wave the fees, you may be able to use your preferred member status as leverage to persuade them to waive the fees.
  • Upgrade and save. While it may seem counter-intuitive to spend more money to save some, many of these extra charges are truly free in many club-level rooms. You might get free-internet service, breakfast and an afternoon snack, even as you stay in a nicer room. When you add the extras these rooms provide and discount the resort fees that you’d be paying otherwise, the club room could end up being a better value than the basic room.
  • Economize. Conversely, many mid-priced hotel chains offer free internet access and breakfasts, often without charging a hidden surcharge.

By following these tips, you could save yourself a lot of dough. That’s good news for the weary traveler.

By David Plowman

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